Life seems to offer two paths when we make our choices. When trying something new, whether or not something is terrifying or exciting, usually is what determines if we proceed forward. I want you to ask yourself right now what you want to try and do with your life. Does what you want to do excite you or frighten you?
Fear is something that is important for survival. The problem is that sometimes fear creeps in when it comes to our dreams. I mean how many times have you wanted to try something new that you think would be fun but you are so afraid for some reason? I know I have been in that situation plenty of times and still battle it. You have to ask yourself whether or not you should be concerned or if you just need to take a leap of faith.
Most of us want to start a new hobby or try a new job. We want to maybe ask someone out, or learn something new! We can’t let fear get in our way of doing the things that we want in life. So many things just require more practice than anything else. The more you do things the better you usually become at whatever it is.
Confidence is the key to success. Whatever it is you want to try or become better at you are going to have to work on it more often. Just like with dating, the more time you spend with someone and the more you get to know them, the more relaxed you become around them. You have to get comfortable with your interests and your goals. You have to know them more by devoting more time to them. You simply have to water what you want out of your life so that it will grow along with you!