So I’m currently hiding in my parent’s bathroom. I’m anxious because my nephews and some other family are over and the noise and commotion make it hard to wind down. I worked around 6:30am-3 and I was going to take a nap but now I think I’m just going to get dressed and head to the bar. I need to get out the door ASAP because I just need some space.
So it’s Friday night, your single, so what do you do? If you are anything like me, your going out. It’s summer and you need fun in your life. Sure the bar isn’t your first choice, but hey, remember like me your single. You really want to just stay home and cuddle up to someone you love, but the harsh truth sets in, and well, no one fits the bill yet.
You had your party days and are growing up. You want the little things and the kind of person to fill the rest of your life with, just the little things. It’s funny you can complain about anything and everything but when you are in love with the right person nothing else could go right, but with the right person to come home to, it just doesn’t matter.
Right now, a movie, some carry out, and maybe a little intimacy would be perfect. Hey, even if it was just dinner and a home movie that would be just fine! That connection is something so ingrained in us yet anymore with technology we are connected, but are truly nothing more than just distant!
So am I saying to dwell and get down, no of course not. What I’m saying is that truth and reality tends to come in waves and hit you when you least expect it. Even if it’s temporary or situational depression it still sucks. You have to stay positive and more importantly you have to stay patient. Trust me I’m biting my tongue and gritting my teeth at the same time myself.
I’m not here to whine or complain, I’m here to relate and create understanding. Whether you are a man or a woman, or somewhere in between, you know what I’m talking about. So be patient and keep holding and you will find what you are looking for. Just know I’m in it too and you are most certainly, not alone!